After the Narcissist Reclaim Life, Love, and Light
Being in a relationship with a Narcissist is not a normal relationship by any means and we must accept that as the truth to move forward into recovery and remove the Narcissist from our mind and heart completely, because this was abuse and it never gets better, it only takes and destroys a person.
While we’re in the relationship with the Narcissist we try to justify and fix these “off the wall” crazy making efforts from the Narcissist because we think this will somehow change in the future if we work through it. We have a perspective that our Narcissist has issues that need our support and love to make it OK, but this only allows it to continue and only enables more abuse. YES, our Narcissist has many issues, but none of which we could even fix and we only end up coming out of the relationship needing to be fixed instead.